On November 11, 2017, our daughter was born dead after 30 weeks of pregnancy. We named her May. We had to figure our way through the bureaucracy regarding burial, autopsy and maternity leave while in shock and mourning. Friends and family tried to support us at the time and in the coming months, but had trouble doing so while either grieving themselves or finding it hard to understand what we were going through. It is so important to have an organization that can guide and support families as they are going through the pain of child loss and pregnancy loss.